Each year on March 21, people around the world celebrate
individuals with Down syndrome. It’s 3-21, representing the three copies of the
21st chromosome that cause the most commonly occurring chromosomal
condition in humans. 2019 is the 9th year that this date has held a
special meaning for me as the parent of a daughter with Down syndrome.
This year for the first time I went into my daughter’s
second grade classroom at City Neighbors Charter School in Baltimore to talk about Down
syndrome. There are lots of blueprints available from Down syndrome
organizations and other parents for these kinds of “peer presentations.” But
much of what I found as I prepared for my visit didn’t feel quite right. These
presentations often felt designed for otherwise homogeneous groups of white,
middle-class, suburban students with one student who stood out because of her
extra chromosome. Our context couldn’t be more different. My daughter’s
classmates are diverse in a myriad of ways – racially and ethnically,
socioeconomically, and in terms of ability. So I borrowed a little bit from
here and there (and a leaping off point from my dear friends Brian and Erika
who made cookies like these for WDSD at City Neighbors Hamilton a few years ago
in celebration of their fabulous daughter Amara).
Here is the letter we sent
home to parents describing my visit.
Today Hope and I shared a little bit about Down syndrome
with her classmates…
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Hope and I gave each child two small cookies.
One had two M&Ms on top and the other had three. Everyone tried each cookie
and compared them. We talked about the ingredients in cookies – flour, sugar,
butter, eggs… The cookies with three M&Ms were made with an extra egg –
they are a little chewier, but they are still delicious!
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People are made from a recipe of ingredients
too. Each one of the trillions of cells that make up our bodies have
chromosomes inside to tell our cells what to do – they make our eyes brown or
blue, our hair straight or curly, etc. Most people get 23 chromosomes from
their mother + 23 chromosomes from their father = for a total of 46
chromosomes. Sometimes a baby gets one extra – so they have 47 chromosomes.
When the extra chromosome is an extra #21, that person has Down syndrome. Hope
has Down syndrome.
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Having an extra chromosome makes some things a
little harder: When she was little, Hope had a lot of therapists to help her
learn to speak, walk, jump and run. Now she gets extra help at school from Ms.
Evans for speech and Ms. Jen for writing and other fine motor activities, from
Ms. Jones and Ms. Chester. Most people with Down syndrome have to see more
doctors than other people – but Down syndrome isn’t a sickness and no one can
catch it. It’s just something you are born with and will always have.
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People are all a little bit different from each
other – they are made from a slightly different recipe, but we all have a lot
in common too. We talked about some of the things that make us different from
one another and some of the things we have in common – who likes pizza or
sushi, who is scared of getting shots and who doesn’t get upset about it, who
likes to dance, play soccer or do the zipline on the playground, who likes to go to the beach or
fly on an airplane.
Hope loves school and she loves being with her classmates!
We hope that understanding why Hope is a little different, but also how she is really
just a kid like them, will help her classmates continue to be good friends, to
give her a hand when she needs a little help, and allow her to be a friend to
them. (In truth, no one gives a better hug than Hope when you are feeling down,
and if anyone needs help overcoming a fear of doctors or hospitals, Hope should
be your go-to friend!)
Here are a few additional facts about
Down syndrome:
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Down syndrome is the most commonly occurring
chromosomal condition, occurring in about 1 in every 700 babies in the United
States.
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Down syndrome occurs when an individual has a
full or partial extra copy of chromosome 21.
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All people with Down syndrome experience
cognitive delays but they are usually mild to moderate.
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Often people with Down syndrome have vision and
hearing challenges, about half have heart defects, and most have low muscle
tone that contributes to challenges in gross motor function and speech.
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Because of advances in medical care and early
intervention services, and because people with Down syndrome are included in
school and the community, people with Down syndrome can live wonderful lives as
part of their community – they can graduate from high school, go to college,
get married, have a job and live long, healthy lives.
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Next week, March 21 (or 3-21) is World Down
Syndrome Day!
If you or your child ever has a question about Down
syndrome, please just ask. We love to talk about Down syndrome!
Best,
Liz and Hope